200 Ways to Raise a Girl's Self-Esteem helps parents and teachers understand the subtle difference between self-esteem "boosters" and "busters". For example, complimenting a young woman on her appearance may give her the idea that she is valued only for her looks and not for her intellect or creativity.200 Ways to Raise a Girl's Self-Esteem helps parents and teachers understand the subtle difference between self-esteem "boosters" and "busters". For example, complimenting a young woman on her appearance may give her the idea that she is valued only for her looks and not for her intellect or creativity.