隨手一抓的性教育

去年自從紅黃藍幼兒園事件，內(nèi)心恐慌一下買了好幾本當下流行的性教育啟蒙繪本，家里書多了一下堆在了角落忘了拎出來講。

昨天講raz c的時候，Get in 中有女孩，男孩，女人，男人和各種動物陸續(xù)進入泳池，當時第一反應天啊，怎么人畜一個泳池呢？樂哥兒的倒是見怪不怪的，問起了別的問題

Lawrence: Why doesnt the man put on the shirt? But the woman and the girl put on the shirt?

M: because women have boobs while men dont. Girls will grow boobs soon but boys don’t. So they need to cover their boobs.

L: why do they need to cover their boobs?

M: cuz that’s the private place. U dont want others to see that private place. Boy and men also have their private place. Do u c they r wearing swimming pants?

L: why?

M: cuz that’s the private place and u also cover ur penis when u went swimming, right? Cuz u dont want others to see it.

L: why?

M: if others see it or touch it, how will u feel?

L: i will feel upset.

M: yes, u should be . Nobody can touch ur private place if u dont want it. Even the doctors should ask daddy or mummy first. If sb touches u, who should u call?

L: the policeman.

M: yes, but I prefer u will call daddy and mummy first and tell us what happen. Listen, if u dont want others to touch ur private place. Neither do the girls and women. So u cannot touch, ok?

L: got it.

沒想到隨手一抓的分級閱讀，可能平時多少有留意如何進行性教育啟蒙，就在樂哥兒懵懂的眼神中，大概說了一遍。

后續(xù)估計有關問題會越來越多，看來有空還要備課看看怎么解答相關內(nèi)容，畢竟性教育不能耽誤，尤其是新世代的孩子。與其讓孩子自己在網(wǎng)上尋尋覓覓，從別人那獲取有誤有差異的，甚至不適宜的內(nèi)容和信息，倒不如相信自己，靜下心來慢慢教育。性教育本身是一門生物科學，面對科學，面對知識，孩子本是無尷尬的情感的，只是后來大人慢慢賦予并傳遞。所以與其糾結在尷尬的情感中，不如真真切切地教授科學知識，因為尷尬的是父母，保護的是孩子。