Publisher Comments : You Can Stop Fighting With Your Children
Here is the bestselling book that will give you the know-how you need to be more effective with your children--and more supportive of yourself. Enthusiastically praised by p...《如何說(shuō)孩子才會(huì)聽(tīng)怎么聽(tīng)孩子才肯說(shuō)》是美國(guó)家庭教育十大暢銷書(shū)之一,銷售300多萬(wàn)冊(cè),被譯為30多種文字版本廣泛傳頌,全球父母親子必讀。該書(shū)長(zhǎng)踞美國(guó)暢銷書(shū)排行榜,長(zhǎng)居《紐約時(shí)報(bào)》親子類暢銷書(shū)排行榜,出版20多年長(zhǎng)銷不衰。 ★中國(guó)大陸唯一授權(quán)正版中文精裝本! ★美國(guó)最著名的親子教育書(shū)系作者,送給中國(guó)父母的最好禮物——愛(ài)的技巧和訓(xùn)練。 “你這孩子怎么那么不聽(tīng)話?”面對(duì)孩子的行為做父母的常常忍不住脫口而出。是的,天涼了讓加衣服就是不加,地板涼可就是要打光腳,就是不要刷牙,就是要把飯弄得滿桌子都是,就是不叫叔叔阿姨,就是要把屋子弄得亂七八糟,到吃飯的點(diǎn)了可就是還要看電視,就是不愿意做作業(yè)……等等,全是怎么說(shuō)都不聽(tīng)。 閱讀本書(shū)的經(jīng)歷,將是一次學(xué)習(xí)愛(ài)的技巧與接受愛(ài)的訓(xùn)練的過(guò)程, 它給了你走進(jìn)孩子內(nèi)心世界的鑰匙,指引你切身體會(huì)孩子內(nèi)心的感受。通過(guò)一系列實(shí)用有效的方法,幫助你和孩子建立起一個(gè)能夠快樂(lè)交流的平臺(tái),使孩子變得不同尋常地愿意與父母配合。掌握了“如何說(shuō)?”“怎么聽(tīng)?”的技巧,就能開(kāi)啟孩子的心靈世界,與孩子達(dá)成美妙的交流溝通,讓孩子在您的引導(dǎo)下身心健康發(fā)展。
Publisher Comments : You Can Stop Fighting With Your Children
Here is the bestselling book that will give you the know-how you need to be more effective with your children--and more supportive of yourself. Enthusiastically praised by parents and professionals around the world, the down-to-earth, respectful approach of Faber and Mazlish makes relationships with children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding. Now, in this Twentieth Anniversary Edition, these award-winning experts share their latest insights and suggestions based upon feedback they've received over the years.
Their methods of communication-illustrated with delightful cartoons showing the skills in action-offer innovative ways to solve common problems. You'll learn how to: 1.Cope with your child's negative feelings-frustration, disappointment, anger, etc. 2.Express your anger without being hurtful 3.Engage your child's willing cooperation 4.Set firm limits and still maintain goodwill 5.Use alternatives to punishment 6.Resolve family conflicts peacefully
Amazon.com How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk is an excellent communication tool kit based on a series of workshops developed by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish. Faber and Mazlish (coauthors of Siblings Without Rivalry) provide a step-by-step approach to improving relationships in your house. The "Reminder" pages, helpful cartoon illustrations, and excellent exercises will improve your ability as a parent to talk and problem-solve with your children. The book can be used alone or in parenting groups, and the solid tools provided are appropriate for kids of all ages.
About Author Internationally acclaimed experts on communication between adults and children, Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish have won the gratitude of parents and the enthusiastic endorsement of the professional community.
Their first book, Liberated Parents/Liberated Children, received the Christopher Award for "literary achievement affirming the highest values of the human spirit." Their subsequent books, How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk and the #1 New York Times bestseller Siblings Without Rivalry, have sold over 3 million copies and have been translated into more than twenty languages. Their group workshop programs and videos produced by PBS are currently used by thousands of parents' groups around the globe. Their most recent book, How to Talk So Kids Can Learn-At Home and in School, was cited by Child magazine as the "best book of the year for excellence in family issues and education."
Both authors studied with the late child psychologist, Dr. Haim Ginott, and are former members of the faculty of The New School for Social Research in New York City and The Family Life Institute of Long Island University. In addition to their frequent lectures throughout the United States and Canada, they have appeared on every major television show from "Good Morning America" to "The Oprah Winfrey Show." They currently reside in Long Island, New York, and each is the parent of three children.
From Los Angeles Times "Designed to bring adults to the level of children, and children to the level of adults, so that this happy meeting ground can truly make for harmony in the home."